Homeschooling has never been more in demand and it’s a lot easier to begin than you might think. Our Homeschooling 101: How to Start Homeschooling guide outlines five basic steps you’ll need to start homeschooling today!

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Homeschooling 101: How to Start Homeschooling

November 9, 2022

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Homeschooling 101 How to Start Homeschooling

Providing your child with a home education is a beautiful undertaking. As a parent or caretaker, you can provide a customized learning experience tailored to their individual needs and interests. It may seem a bit daunting at first, but once you know the basics, you will be able to homeschool with confidence, knowing you are providing the best education for your child. Below you will find the basics on how to start homeschooling aka Homeschooling 101. 

Homeschooling doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, once you find your rhythm, it might be even easier than you think and rewarding beyond measure. Being together, learning, and growing with your child will enable you additional time and opportunities to bond during those fleeting years of youth.

Ready to begin? Learn how to start homeschooling in 5 basic steps.

1. Make it Legal

The very first thing you need to do before you begin is find out your state’s laws and requirements for homeschooling. Homeschooling is legal in every state, but the laws and requirements vary substantially. These laws can be fluid and change from time to time so it is important to stay up to date on what is required. To see the homeschooling requirements for your specific state, click here.

2. Decide on a Homeschooling Method

There are several homeschooling methods or styles to choose from. While it is NOT necessary to follow a specific method, many families find that it is exactly what they are looking for in a homeschooling program. It can also open doors to meeting other families in your community through co-ops that are also using these methods.

Before deciding on a specific method, you will want to consider how your children learn. This can be a crucial aspect in the success of your homeschooling. You may feel inclined to follow a certain style or you may choose to blend several methods into your own. There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to homeschooling. One of the best parts about a home education is YOU get to decide what works for your family!

Some of the most popular homeschooling styles include:

Classical Homeschooling


A classical homeschool education is divided into three basic segments: the grammar stage, the logic or dialectic stage, and the rhetoric stage. The program is language based, both written and spoken, with a heavy amount of reading and writing. Subjects tend to be intertwined and show the relationships between the different studies.

A classical education typically follows a four-year pattern repeated three times for history and science. History consists of a study of the Ancients, Middle Ages, Renaissance and Reformation, and Modern Times. Science includes Biology, Earth Science and basic Astronomy, Chemistry, and Physics and Computer Science.

Is a Classical Homeschool Education Christian? Usually, in homeschooling circles, the answer to this is yes. Although many topics are discussed such as myths and mythological people, many private Christian schools and homeschools do follow some form of the Classical Education method. It is common for textbooks and workbooks to adhere to Christian beliefs.

For a more in-depth look at what goes into a classical education, I highly recommend the book, The Well Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer and Jessie Wise. The book contains a great amount of detail regarding what subjects are covered in a classical homeschool education program and how to follow it from the early years all the way through high school.

Charlotte Mason Homeschooling


It would be hard to talk about homeschooling without mentioning this popular style. The Charlotte Mason method places a focus on educating the entire person, not just the mind. It views education through the lenses of the Atmosphere, Discipline, and Life.

The atmosphere includes the surroundings where the child grows up. The discipline includes building good habits. And the life applies to academics where the focus is on “living books” rather than textbooks that are fact based only. Through habits, books, and discovery, it is believed that the child will foster a lifelong desire for learning.

Typically considered a Christian method of homeschooling, many families tend to shy away from the Charlotte Mason method. However, I believe that whether you are looking for a secular method or a different religious preference, any style of homeschooling can be tailored to fit your needs.

There are a series of books by Charlotte Mason books to delve into called The Home Education Series. If this style seems interesting to you, I would recommend starting with the first book in the series, Home Education.

Montessori Homeschooling


Although many people think of younger preschool aged children when referencing a Montessori philosophy, the Montessori method is for children of any age. It is a unique style that promotes self-growth through independent learning based on interests. With Montessori, it is more of a lessons-based approach with a lot of flexibility rather than a strict curriculum to be met in a specific timeframe.

“Education is a natural process carried out by the child is not acquired by listening to words but by experiences in the environment.” Maria Montessori.

While introducing children through a certain scope or sequence of concepts, students are given the time and freedom to learn at their own pace and meet individualized goals. According to Melanie Thiesse of the American Montessori Society, a Montessori education “strives to nurture each child’s natural desire for knowledge, understanding, and respect.”

If you are interested in learning more about the Montessori method, you might enjoy The Home Education Series.

Unschooling Homeschooling


Like with the Montessori method, Unschooling Homeschooling typically places the focus on student-led learning. Without the use of a structured curriculum, children are given a great deal of independence to learn on their own from their surroundings. Testing is not common with unschooling nor is learning through a linear approach.

Unschooling truly rebuts the traditional style of learning that public school emphasizes and trusts that through life experiences, children will in fact learn all they need to know. Motivation of the child plays a key role in unschooling. When the desire is there, a child will learn something, such as reading. With unschooling, socializing and the surrounding environment play a large role in the child’s education.

Since unschooling is more of a life process than a school process, children who are unschooled may also have more freedoms in other areas of their life such as bedtimes, screen times, food, and clothing choices.

To learn more about unschooling and whether it is the right fit for your family, you may enjoy: Unschooling Rules: 55 Ways to Unlearn What We Know About Schools and Rediscover Education or Unschooled: Raising Curious, Well-Educated Children Outside the Conventional Classroom.

Schooling at Home


Schooling at home is exactly how it sounds. Children are taught in their homes in a similar manner that they would be learning in a classroom. There is usually a set curriculum with standards that are based around traditional grade levels or even state standards. Sometimes a classroom is setup in the home with a desk, wall décor, and all. Of course, this is not a requirement, but many families enjoy having this designated space. 

Subjects covered will likely include English, Reading, Writing, Math, Science, and Social Science and/or History. Art, music, foreign languages, and extracurriculars may also be used.

Eclectic Homeschooling


An eclectic homeschooling method is simply taking the parts of different homeschooling styles to make it your own. With eclectic homeschooling you can borrow the best parts from each style and blend them to fit your family’s lifestyle and schedule.

As your family grows and changes, your homeschooling methodology may evolve as well. There is no set of rules that says once you start a specific method, you are stuck for the next x number of years. Try out what feels right and if it doesn’t seem to be working, try something else!




3. Choose a Homeschool Curriculum

Once you’ve decided on a homeschooling method, it is time to start thinking about curriculum. Every parent is looking for the BEST homeschooling curriculum for their family. Unfortunately, I’m here to tell you that there is no such thing as a one curriculum fits all. What is the best for my family, may not be the best for your family. Luckily, with an abundance of homeschooling bloggers and YouTube videos, there are many resources today that can give you a glimpse into what a specific curriculum entails before investing too much time or money in it.

There is a plethora of companies that offer homeschooling curriculum. Some companies offer fully online programs with instructors. Others offer online with videos and instructors on hand for questions. And there are still plenty of options for those looking for a complete hands-on homeschooling program (probably more of these, than anything else). Some programs are considered open-and-go where the lesson plans are laid out for you. Other homeschooling programs come with instructor’s guides, but it will be up to you on how long to spend on each section.

Many times, new homeschooling parents wonder about the “accreditation” of homeschooling programs. This is something that is more beneficial in high school years, but it is NOT a necessity for homeschooling families, even for ones that have college-bound students. However, these kinds of programs do offer good record keeping, which IS going to be needed, especially for upper-level homeschoolers.

Questions to consider before choosing a homeschooling program:

• Do you want a religious based program or secular?
• Do you want a curriculum that is paper based, online, or a combination of both?
• Do you want everything laid out for you or do you want some flexibility in your schedule?
• Which subjects do you want to cover?
• Which subjects can be combined for different grade levels?
• Will you be the teacher for every subject?

4. Make a Plan

You’ve made it legal, you know how you want to teach, and you’ve decided on the curriculum. Now what? Before your first day of homeschooling begins, it is good to have a plan for how the day is going to be laid out. This plan doesn’t have to be rigid with every minute planned (but it can be if that’s what works for your family – hello fellow type-A mamas).

The goal is ultimately to find a homeschooling rhythm that flows from day to day.

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Before your first day of homeschooling, decide on the following:

Where will you homeschool?
Although some families have them, desks are not required to homeschool. In our home, the dining room table is where we get our bookwork done, the sofa is where we do a little reading, and the back porch swing is perfect for our read-aloud stories.

Will you homeschool year-round or take summers off?
One of the greatest benefits of homeschooling is the flexibility in your schedule. Many states have requirements for the number of days that you homeschool per year, but when those days take place is entirely up to you. Some families enjoy following a traditional school schedule with assigned holidays and summers off. Other families choose to homeschool year-round and take breaks as needed.

How many hours should you homeschool each day?
Along with the days and months that you decide to homeschool, you also can decide how long to homeschool for each day. Some states require a set number of hours to be considered a “school day” while other states do not have any requirements for this. It is important to follow your states guidelines including recordkeeping.

Many parents of younger elementary aged students find that 2 – 3 hours a day is the sweet spot for learning. For older children, middle school kids, and high schoolers, somewhere between 4 – 6 hours is typically enough time to cover everything.

Can you work full-time and homeschool?
Absolutely. Maybe you work in some school time in the morning with the remainder in the afternoon or evening. Maybe you homeschool on the weekends, but not every day during the week. While there is no doubt that working full-time and homeschooling might have its challenges, if it is in your heart to do it, YOU CAN DO IT!

How do you homeschool multiple grade levels?
If you are homeschooling children in multiple grade levels, you might want to consider curriculum where learning can take place together. Subjects including Science, History, and Language Arts read-alouds are usually tailored for an age range rather than one specific grade. For subjects like reading and math, the children can work on their own with your assistance.

Additionally, if you have a baby or toddler, you’ll want to think about how they can be entertained while you are teaching the older children. There is also the regular home management stuff like cooking, cleaning, and errands. How do those things fit in?

Evaluate what is working and what isn’t. Make changes as you go. It can be a delicate balancing act of getting things done around the house and homeschooling. Don’t forget to let the kids pitch in. Learning how to manage a home is arguably just as important as any of the schoolwork for the day.




5. Find Your Tribe

Life is better together and that includes homeschooling. Finding other families who are on a similar journey with shared values will be beneficial for both you and your children. But where do you find these families?

Sometimes it is hard when you are first starting out, especially if you don’t know of any other homeschooling families in your area. If you are involved with your local church, that’s a great place to start. Ask around and see if there are other families who homeschool. Even if they don’t homeschool, church groups are a great way for homeschooled kids to be around other kids their age.

Facebook is another excellent way to find local families who homeschool. Search for local homeschooling groups in your city, county, or neighboring county. If one hasn’t been started yet, maybe this is a calling for you!

Another option is to join a co-op. There are many different types of co-ops. Some are educational. Some are social. Some are both. If you don’t see one that fits what you are looking for, start your own! The odds are there are others who are looking for what you are looking for as well.

I hope that these 5 steps have been beneficial in the start of your homeschooling journey.

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